I should post something today
– Why?
To keep my mind from…
– From what?
To keep my mind from tumbling
– Tumbling?
Yeah, tumbling
– Interesting word
Why?
– Do you know what it means?
I think so
– Did you look it up?
No
– Why don’t you do so?
Ok… tumble
Holy f… !
Here is a brief history of my sexual preferences from age 3 to 25. It contains some explicit thoughts and some dirty words.
When I was a boy (from age 3 up to 12) I was physically attracted to ladies only. But when puberty started, my attention turned to my penis and its erections. I was intrigued by the pleasure I got when I did certain things with it. I was 12 or 13 when I had my first ejaculation.
At that time, I became curious about boys my age and their penises. I wondered if they pleasured themselves in secret just like I did. My interest in the male form (physique) started to awaken also. I began to notice the difference between cute guys from the not-so-cute ones.
At age 14, I started having wet dreams. This was a surprise and an embarrassment — to wake up in a puddle of sticky sperm every now and then. But the content of my dreams was what troubled me the most. In these lucid dreams, I was almost always in the school yard and I would pull down a boy’s pants, suck his dick and then force him to suck mine. These dreams disturbed me because I would find myself so excited when I woke up. I thought I was turning into a homosexual and I was horrified!
In the meantime, in real life, I would date girls only. Girls were attracted to me and it was easy to find a girlfriend. I had many. I would discreetly look at guys from the corner of my eyes, but would only allow myself to hug, fondle and French kiss girls. I wanted my interest in guys to go away, but the more I repressed it, the more explicit my dreams became.
At age 19, I decided to do something about it. I went to see a counselor. I was so afraid to speak about this issue that prior to seeing him, I wrote everything down. I scribbled a 5-page letter, spelling out exactly what I wanted to say to the counselor. I remember walking into his office, sitting down, pulling out my letter, and starting to read.
Basically what I was telling him was that I was gay and that I had never been able to admit it to anyone, not even to myself. My dreams proved to me that deep down I was gay. I read the letter to the end without stopping. I was shaking. To me it was like admitting defeat: I had failed as a man. I thought that I would never be a real man, that I was doomed, that I was a loser. I was ready for execution. I wanted him to pull out a gun and shoot me, right there on the spot, no questions asked.
I finished reading the letter and I sat there, staring at the floor. I didn’t want to look into his eyes. I felt relieved but at the same time totally extinguished. I thought my life was over. Finally I looked up at him and he was smiling and he said: “Daemon, you’re not gay. Dreams don’t mean anything. You’ve never had sex with a man. How can you possibly know whether or not you are gay?”
I was shocked! His comment was so unexpected. I could not believe my ears. I was also a bit disappointed because it had taken me 5 years to gather up enough courage to finally admit to someone my most secret fantasies, proving that I was gay, and he tells me that I am not!? I was so surprised, I could not speak. I simply stood up, thanked him, shook his hand and walked out.
From that moment on, whenever I would feel attracted to a guy, I would replay his words in my head, visualize his smile, hear his gentle, caring voice say: “Daemon, you’re not gay.” I chose to believe him. Yes it was a choice and it was also what I wanted to believe, so I accepted it.
My physical attraction to females was a given. I was attracted to women by default. No doubt about that. So the years went by and I continued chasing women and dreaming about sucking dick and at age 25, I married a young lady my age.
To be continued… (maybe).
I long for a stranger
My heart wants a flyer
One my size, one like me
The finer the better
Who could it be
Hero or fairy
He’s hiding from me
My eyes just can’t see
His phantom makes sure
That forever I look
Ahead and within me
Not in any great book
He draws me nearer
Inside his manor
Do I have a choice
When I hear his voice
He’s very tricky
And very strange too
I’m sure there must be
A reason or two
He shows me where to go
So I never get lost
Pulls me with his lasso
Weird kind of Pentecost
I’m sure he’s what I shall become
I’m attracted to my future
I wonder if you think it’s dumb
To be drawn to my true nature
I want to take him
I want to kiss him
I want to eat him
Infuse into him
I think that if I do that
My body will transform
I will no longer be flat
Mistaken for a worm
Pleasuring myself and you
Unafraid of the mirror
Maybe even turn into
My own secret admirer
Not to envy my body
Simply fluttering proudly
Stimulating the others
Implying that it matters
Understand what is mine
Meant to glow and to shine
Can’t believe that it’s greed
To find one’s own star seed
This seed is my core
Pushes me forward
I just can’t ignore
Love that is inward
Honor it, hug it
Give it importance
And presidency
Spirit is the key
But why is it like this
It hurts to not be ready
I’m not yet the reflection
Of the one I wish to be
The mirror is a liar
It shows the exterior
The bumps, the pits, the scars
An aging caterpillar
But this is not me
It’s just a fur top
It’s like an eggshell
A shield I must drop
Oh I can’t wait to get out
Geez I can’t wait to break free
Can’t stop dreaming of those wings
How beautiful they will be
Metamorphosis 