I spent a good part of my life thinking that I would die soon.
Why? Where did this idea come from?
Let’s take a walk down memory lane.
My father. He would often speak about the “end of the world.” He would read on the subject and leave his books lying around the house. I remember one book in particular: The Vision by David Wilkerson.
Wilkerson was an American Christian evangelist. I think I was 13 years old when I read his book The Vision. My father was a firm believer that the Second Coming of Christ was going to happen soon and that we should therefore prepare ourselves for the afterlife and not bother making long-term plans to attain temporal success in the material world.
I was a naive, impressionable boy. My dad’s way of thinking had a profound impact on my thinking. I expected the end of the world to happen any day. I thought more about my death than about my life. I wonder how normal this was — if it was a good thing or a bad thing as I was growing up.
I know one thing. It greatly affected my mindset.
I watched my peers as I grew up and could not understand why they were so preoccupied with the things of this world: school, money, career, prestige. I was concerned with something quite different. My father used to say: “The most important thing in life is your relationship with God.” I believed him.
Today I wonder. What am I trying to prove with my blog? That I have a relationship with God? Am I just trying to impress my father? Am I trying to convince myself and others that this life is unimportant? Maybe this life is more valuable than I think.
My father died in 2004. The end of the world did not happen during “this generation,” as he used to say. He was quite certain that he would live to see the Second Coming of Christ. He didn’t. Or maybe he did, on some other level of consciousness. I don’t know.
Living as though the end is near… does it push me to live fully or does it depress me? I think it does both. It makes me ponder, for one thing. It makes me turn inward. It makes me introspect. It turns me into an introvert. It makes me think that perhaps the end of Daemon will never come… or that it came already.